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ASIN : B098PXH8CK Publisher : Harmony (April 5, 2022) Publication date : April 5, 2022 Language : English File size : 4383 KB Text-to-Speech : Enabled Screen Reader : Supported Enhanced typesetting : Enabled X-Ray : Enabled […]
ASIN : B098PXH8CK
Publisher : Harmony (April 5, 2022)
Publication date : April 5, 2022
Language : English
File size : 4383 KB
Text-to-Speech : Enabled
Screen Reader : Supported
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Print length : 295 pages
Page numbers source ISBN : 0593235231
Best Sellers Rank: #1 in Parenting eBooks on Children with Disabilities
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| ASIN : | B098PXH8CK |
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| Publisher : | Harmony (April 5, 2022) |
| Publication date : | April 5, 2022 |
| Language : | English |
| File size : | 4383 KB |
| Text-to-Speech : | Enabled |
| Screen Reader : | Supported |
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| X-Ray : | Enabled |
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| Print length : | 295 pages |
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Anon –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A little like reading my autobiography, validating, and empowering for late diagnosed women
I literally bought a copy for my therapist, that is how strongly I feel this book captures the essence of my experiences and identity. There are bits here and there that were more the author than myself, but they were few and far between, and I feel that the core of the book very much speaks to the universality of the experience that late-diagnosed, female or AFAB go through. Even if it hits less strongly for another person’s experience, there is still so much of value in reading this book that absolutely justifies purchasing or borrowing it and reading it. Truly. I was diagnosed within the last year (early 40’s), and at first felt so much release and understanding, and was confident that I would be able to choose where and when to drop my masking, and that everything would only be up from there, but so much of my masking just disappeared, and the realization also came that just knowing I was autistic didn’t miraculously change the fact that I was still autistic, with all the challenges therein. I was still ok, but I did start to feel very alone and without information to help me readjust. So much of the literature is written from a very euro- and male-centered perspective and about euro- and male autistics, that I felt twice and thrice othered. I thought that this book might be more of the same as they identify as white and male, however, clearly his being a person whose identity is one of complex intersectionality, I feel his writing comes across as highly inclusive and unifying. I highly recommend this book to anyone, struggling or not, with their late diagnosis. Very informative.
33 people found this helpful
Joshua AwesomeJoshua Awesome –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Unmasking Autism: A Personal Journey of Discovery and Acceptance
“Unmasking Autism” extends beyond the confines of a mere book; it resonates deeply with my personal journey, weaving a narrative of familiarity and profound self-discovery. The term “Autism” has been a lingering source of apprehension in my life, especially as I recognized echoes of my own experiences reflected in the stories of others. The pivotal point in my quest for self-acceptance came in March 2023, focusing initially on acknowledging my ADD diagnosis from 1990—a facet of my identity I had rarely discussed.Diving into ADD literature revealed a captivating parallel, drawing connections between ADD and autistic brains. This revelation served as a catalyst, igniting a year-long exploration into the intricate world of autism. What commenced as a personal endeavor evolved into a collective journey, with my immersion in literature becoming a shared experience, offering insights to those grappling with similar questions.In the course of this exploration, a trans friend recommended “Unmasking Autism,” recognizing its potential to illuminate shared experiences. The book surpassed the confines of its pages, transforming into a reflective mirror that captured the nuanced contours of my own narrative. Despite life’s challenges, the joy and enlightenment found within the book emerged as guiding forces, shaping my ongoing pursuit of authenticity.Navigating the terrain of special interests presents its own challenges. While many autistic individuals find their passions in objects or subjects, my most profound special interest has always been people. This led to a lifetime of attempting to blend in, striving to avoid standing out and seeking acceptance. I’ve learned that autistic individuals with this unique special interest often go unnoticed, appearing “normal” to the outside world, making it challenging for others to fathom the intricacies of our minds.One of the most painful moments of my past year occurred when my therapist of 8 years dismissed the idea of autism, insisting, “I don’t see that in you. Nothing you have shared makes me think you are autistic. You need to stop self-diagnosing.” To my dismay, my therapist, with whom I had shared my innermost thoughts for nearly a decade, did not believe in neurodivergence. Dismissing my experiences, she chuckled, attributing ADHD diagnoses in the 80s to all boys. This experience spurred me on a quest to find a therapist who understands the autistic brain, a journey that, unfortunately, remains unfulfilled. “Unmasking Autism” stands as a pivotal chapter in my journey of self-discovery. Compelled to share its profound insights, I gifted copies to significant figures in my life—my mother and lawyer—in an earnest attempt to foster understanding.Devon’s work transcends the constraints of a conventional book; it serves as a companion, guiding through the intricate landscape of life with a unique perspective. With heartfelt gratitude, I commend Devon for crafting an insightful and relatable exploration of the autistic experience, providing individuals like me with a roadmap to embrace their authentic selves.This truly is one of the most profound books I have ever read. Thank you! Also, I highly recommend the audiobook which is read by the author. It makes the story come alive and feels even more personal.
63 people found this helpful
S. RoseS. Rose –
5.0 out of 5 stars
This is my new autism-spectrum bible.
So there I was, meeting with the autism specialist. This specialist, who I’d never met before, concluded within about 10 minutes of meeting me that I was on the autism spectrum, but he had me do a bunch of tests to be sure.At one point, he checked on me during the testing because I was taking forever. I told him I felt the questions were too vague and gave him an example: “Do you prefer the museum or the theater?” And I said to the doc, “Well, which museum is it? And is this a movie theater? If it’s a movie theater, what movies are playing? Is the museum full of dumb stuff I don’t care about or is it cool? How can I possibly make an accurate decision without this information??” And he laughed—and I laughed, because I knew it was funny that I kept getting hung up on this stuff. But also, apparently, needing details about a thing is a very HFASD thing to do.Every single test showed that I have high-functioning autism.Right before the end of our session, he told me to read this book. “It’ll change your life,” he said.He was not wrong. This book has changed my life. And that doctor, overall, has helped save my life.So, this book is a doctorate-of-psychology-autism-specialist recommended book. If you want to understand autism—truly understand it, not just what angry-moms-who-hate-their-kids, years of cruel bias perpetuated by organizations and scientists, and TV tell you about it, this is a really good place to start.That second picture shows all the dog-eared pages I put in this book, marking passages that meant a lot to me. That means this is a well loved book I plan to read again.Autism is simply another way of thinking, seeing, and processing the world. Folks who are considered “high functioning” on the spectrum are likely wildly under diagnosed, and hiding—or “masking”—trying to live in a world that is not very kind to them (speaking from experience, but Dr. Price also goes over this in great detail in the book). In this book, you learn that the autistic brain is physically different from the neurotypical brain, and how that happens, and what that means. Dr. Price gives advice on how to create an environment around yourself as an autistic person—which is also helpful to those who love someone who is autistic—that is better suited to what your brain needs, and gives advice on how to remove the mask and let go of neurotypical expectations.Wow. Seriously, I cannot rave about this book enough. When I finished it, I actually bought two more copies just to give away to people… honestly, I’m trying to make as many people read it as possible.It took me a while to finish it because I had to keep taking breaks, because it hit a lot of my trauma. I cried a few times. When you’re a neurodivergent person trying to live in a neurotypical world, that world will try its best to beat you into a box. To be honest, I learned years ago I would never fit into any box, and started “unmasking.” But this book was still so very empowering to me. It shows just how broad the spectrum is, and how important it is to our mental health that we take care of ourselves, embrace what we need to be at peace, and just let ourselves *be*.
75 people found this helpful
Taylor Staggs –
4.0 out of 5 stars
Good not great
This book has a lot of great information about masking Autism which I really enjoyed. The author is a trans-Autistic and seems to be more focused on discussing transgender issues as much as, if not more often than Autism. The first few chapters I kept thinking I would get passed those parts and just be able to learn about Autism but that hasn’t happened yet and I’m almost finished.
20 people found this helpful
Theocritiquer –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A well written insight for Neural Typical people with Neural Diverse family and friends.
This book is a well written account by a neural diverse trans person who diligently opens up the world of the layers of diversity in human existence. The insight provided allows the reader to focus more clearly on the appropriate diagnosis rather than a blanket statement of mental illness or autism. The layers of diversity are often times similar but different in each person. Despite their diverse needs, providing quality of life for our loved ones is challenging when the healthcare system is not designed to meet their needs. Recommended reading and follow-up research is provided in the appendix of the book.
3 people found this helpful
Marc –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Nice to know I am not alone
This book has been very emotional for me. I always just thought I was weird, but was recently diagnosed (at 46) with high functioning autism with masking. I’ve had to step away from the book from time to time as reading much of it really hits home. Ive taken a lot of what’s on the book and slow incorporating it into my live. Its also allowed to to express myself more, without being fearful. If you know someone with masked autism I would definitely recommend getting this book to read,
4 people found this helpful
James –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A brilliant book that stands out among many great books
There are a lot of really good books related to neurodiversity/autistic self-acceptance, a good number of which are absolutely exception. Unmasking Autism is one that stands out even from that bunch of exception books. I am currently using it as the key text for a university course on neurodiversity and my students have been super engaged with the book and have learned so much. The number of unique, important topics that are covered in the book (and in great clarity) that are not always covered in other books on neurodiversity make it a must-read even if you have read a good number of other neurodiversity classics. I would joke that I could have made all my lesson slides just say “read the book”, and that would 100% adequately teach all that I want to cover, but I’ve never had to once encourage any of my students to read the book, they’ve all been excitedly reading it.
7 people found this helpful
Deborah Ortiz –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Amazing
I’ve been learning about autism for 20 years, but I still learned so much reading this book. It’s important to learn from someone like Devon who has both the personal knowledge and the academic knowledge.
Lindsey –
3.0 out of 5 stars
Worth reading but felt it was more subjective than objective
As a mental health clinical with autism, I found the book is a bit Subject. Respect the writer for sharing their perosnal story but felt that was it was more so that than an actual reference book, in a manner of speaking – it’s their story. But hey! – it’s their book.The book speaks strongly about the theory of negative stigma among well identified evidence-based practices for individuals with autism. Theu see co-current disorder needs, just seemed to say whereas the therapy practices help other disorders, they do not help those with autism.This book leans toward how some modalities,such as Applied Behavioral Sciences and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, seem to “hurt” individuals with autism than support their individuality. Whereas the history of therapy has a rough and demeaning history of biases, many modalities have and continue to evolve with society’s expectations and idnetifiy need for progression. All practices have their pros and cons, and felt the writer needed to have done an actual analysis about the modalities’ benefit most as well as can be of a hindrance. Example: Despite it’s lack of emotional exploration- something most with autism need to learn along with regulation- ABA alone has grown with the American Counseling Association ethical standards along with other respective boards in the field. UNC in North Carolina is well known for their great work for individuals with autism. Sometimes, thet look a ABA/Behavioral intervention. Other times, they see past that as the only need for support many.Therpy from any modality is about self-growth, not telling people how to live their life. Also, we can’t have autistic people be disrespectful towards others in society but then say they are not being respected or “feel misunderstood” because to their matter-of-fact communication approaches toward others was the same way they were approached. Why social-communication is focused in therapy modalities for those with autism.Also, the “person-first” vs “disability-first” identification is significant. The writer appeared have downgraded how some with Autism Spectrum Disorder will idnetifiy as “person with autism” rather than “an autistic person”. Again, as someone with autism, I prefer saying “person with autism ” as opposed to autistic persons becuase I identify autism as only part of my identity and not the center of my life – as I do with my sexuality, meaning I identify as a person that’s homosexual than a queer or gay man. That’s my personal preference; If others want to identify as “autistic perosn’ (or “a queer gay man), that’s their preference, right? My point is I felt immediate guilt when I read this section on page 46 about terminology. It interrupted my reading to go “Wait now…” it’s about preference,but felt writer is low-key trying to tell people to place their traits/diagnosis before their identity to be part of the autism community.Felt the writer wrote it for those that identify autistic and also in the LGBTQ+ community. There are individuals with autism and cis. There are individuals with autism and Christian. It is about inclusion as well as strengthening autism awareness and acceptance.With all this said, I do priase how the writer is encouraging individuals with autism or autistic people to be their individual self – which is interesting to hear from a social psychologist.Also, this book has great knowledge about the autism culture. Indeed insightful! I do like how it focuses more on secondary school age and into adulthood. This is not explored, but instead there is a overwhelming push about early intervention in school settings. When the student still struggles by middle schooleven with intervention, they are viewed, “difficult”, “Defiant”n or “oppositional”. Most do not grow out of autism becuase of the neurodivergence, the way their Brian’s are wired. The writer does advocate this need of awareness, which is much needed and what I do love about this book! This is a good read for adults with autism or if you know an adult with autism. If you connect with it to where it helps you, awesome! I think this book did it primary purpose: To be proud of yourself, and advocate for who you and what you need to thrive!
9 people found this helpful
Kindle Customer –
5.0 out of 5 stars
One of the greatest books on autism ever written
It is truly a remarkable book!
Irene –
4.0 out of 5 stars
This book
Very informative and interesting book
sue –
5.0 out of 5 stars
a crucial resource for autistic folks and their loved one and caregivers
This was a meticulously researched yet accessibly written text that felt a lot like the book equivalent of a TED talk. I saw a lot of myself in it as someone who grew up in the 80s and didn’t find out they were autistic until their late 40s. I personally appreciated Dr Devon’s use of identity first language. I am AUTISTIC and not a “person with autism” because I’m not ashamed of my identity, nor do I need to separate myself from my autism because it’s not a bad thing.I found this book to be wonderfully gentle and compassionate and full of actionable suggestions and interventions, such as values assessments and list of tips for embracing your neurodivergence and cultivating self-advocacy skills. I highly recommend it for any therapist who works with autistic adults as well as for anyone who suspects they might be neurodivergent.As an agender and autistic therapist who specializes in working with fellow neuroqueers, I found Price’s own experiences as a trans man to be particularly relevant. If you’re a TERF, I suggest you skip this and go back to inhabiting the distal portion of JK Rowling’s digestive tract.
58 people found this helpful
Liz H –
5.0 out of 5 stars
So validating and healing
I’m late diagnosed woman who got her dx this winter at 37. It’s been really an amazing experience so far and I’ve been reading as much as I can. Devon’s book was terrific – I’d read many of the academic article he cites but he pulled them together so tidily and with such grace that the finding taken together are very powerful. I had tears streaming down my face reading the into and the first chapter. It was me. I saw my self in those words, those coping techniques, the over compensating, and that suffering. I look forward to diving deeper into the concrete steps he shares for unmasking. This book set my brain on fire and I read it in two days, underlining approximately 30% of it. I have never felt so seen in my autistic experience. This book has depth that most ‘science written for general audiences’ don’t (most read like bad TED talks lol), but Devon’s book is packed with solid research, transitions very smoothly over many topics, made me laugh, made me cry, and ultimately helped me love myself more.
13 people found this helpful
K K –
4.0 out of 5 stars
Informative but only to a point
I learned a lot about autism, but the actual intended purpose of the book felt lost on me. My best understanding is that the book is intended you help someone newly diagnosed to accept their diagnosis through a sort of therapeutic process. For someone who is looking for information about specific practical ways to adapt your life, this book won’t help much.
28 people found this helpful
Georgia –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent book
As someone who’s on the spectrum it’s very eye opening and comforting in many ways. Made me feel seen.
2 people found this helpful
Michael –
3.0 out of 5 stars
I’m conflicted
I was very excited to read this book as someone who knows many autistic humans. There are so many positive messages in the book and Dr. Price shows an incredible amount of understanding and their language evokes empathy. I, like many of the other reviewers, had a difficult time with the strong language of the book and opinions that were presented as research-supported facts. Although, I support self identification, it is vague from this book what autism is, and many people could self diagnose based on the way autism is loosely laid out. I also suspect that many neurotypical people can read this and suspect that they may have autism too. I also feel that Dr. Price speaks of a portion of the population as though they are giving a voice to the population as a whole. For example, I’ve known for many people to benefit from therapies to learn language skills and toilet training, but therapies are thrown out as harmful. There is no research presented to balance out their messaging even though tons of research exists. I love the strong message of acceptance; I also think there are opportunities to suggest learning skills and self growth along with acceptance. This book is great toward the movement of neurodiversity and its intersectionality with marginalism; however, it is sometimes one-sided and opinion-based.
19 people found this helpful
A B –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great book
Would read again!
Alexander Low –
2.0 out of 5 stars
I really wanted to like this book
When I saw this book on tik tok I was incredibly excited about it and ordered it as soon as I could. I was excited about finding a book all about unmasking. I was diagnosed as a child with autism and unfortunately didn’t have access to the support and resources I needed and I still mask heavily.There is a lot of good about this book, especially with the amount of resources and reflection prompts for unpacking masking and stigma that comes along with being autistic.However, then the authors comments began about those of us diagnosed in childhood. This book became a DNF for me because once the comments started they didn’t stop. Reading it felt like this wasn’t meant for me despite sharing many experiences with the author and the other autistic people diagnosed later in life in the story.People diagnosed with autism in childhood are not all young rich white boys. We share a lot of experiences with people diagnosed later in life. I found it rather insulting that the author dedicated so much time to deconstructing the monolith of autism for people diagnosed as adults but also creating a monolith for everyone diagnosed in childhood. The author even shares an anecdote about poorly treating an autistic boy at their high school but fails to dive deeper into his experience, or even consider the experiences for those of us who had autism diagnoses in childhood.I read the majority of this book, and it’s rare I DNF a book, especially one like this that claims to be aligned with disability justice principles. The only reason I’m giving 2/5 stars and not 1/5 is because there are valuable parts of this book. If you are considering this book because you want to learn more about autism, I highly suggest choosing a book like “Sincerely, Your Autistic Child” by the Autistic Women and Nonbinary network instead. That book has everything this book has and more by featuring many first person perspectives on autism from far more diverse people. Overall, incredibly disappointed in this book.
26 people found this helpful
Sidney Jeong –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A true enlightenment
As a late unofficially diagnosed AuDHD person (therapists cannot diagnose their clients even if they’re licensed in my region), this book by Dr. Devon Price was a big enlightenment for why my life has been miserable, and how to change it. Although we’re facing a lot of struggles, especially in politics, a diverse and inclusive world is possible.
11 people found this helpful
Eric Baldelli –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Wow
I bought this book to better understand my partner with AuDHD and it quickly turned into a revelatory experience, realizing that I am also on the spectrum through learning about masking. Devon Price’s writing is so accessible and so packed full of insights for anyone experiencing neurodivergence in themselves or in a loved one. Can’t recommend this book enough.
10 people found this helpful
Kaelyn –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A Phenomenal and Empowering Piece of Activism
I purchased Unmasking Autism for Kindle on a total whim a few days ago after finding it from a Google search about how to unmask as an Autistic person. It may be the single most empowering book I’ve ever read–and self help books are one of my special interests, so that truly is saying a LOT.For Autistic readers–and for folks who think they may be Autistic and are at the beginning of their journey trying to figure it out–I cannot recommend this book enough. I haven’t shut up about it all week, to anyone I’ve had an extended conversation with. There are practical exercises to help you learn how to really LOVE yourself for who you are. There are also a lot of great scientific studies and statistics cited, as well as numerous examples of real Autistic and other neurodivergent people who have worked to unmask in various capacities.Beyond folks who may directly benefit from reading this book, I recommend it to anyone who loves an Autistic person or wants to learn more about us. I’ve recommended this book to my therapist, my psychiatrist, my wife (also Autistic, and serves a lot of ND clients as a therapist), my parents, and at least a couple friends, and all that was before I finished reading it this evening.I also personally related very strongly to many aspects of the author’s journey. The connections Price draws between Autistic and trans identity deeply resonate with me, which made the book an even better fit. But there’s so much great content in this book, and so many diverse perspectives represented, that you definitely don’t have to be a trans Autistic person to benefit from reading this book.Devon Price, your activism is such a beautiful gift to both the Autistic/ND and trans community, and I am immensely grateful for the privilege of having stumbled upon and learned so much from your book. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
47 people found this helpful
BJBJ –
3.0 out of 5 stars
Good, not great. Couldn’t finish.
In hindsight, I now realize the book is about autism ITSELF, not so much about the PROCESS of helping autistic people unmask. That may have been more my fault.The book seems well researched, and I appreciate that a lot. If you’re someone who is largely marginalized due to ethnicity or gender nonconformity, the author definitely wrote this for you! They made extra effort to represent people who are largely underrepresented, or just not acknowledged at all. Kudos.However, as a late diagnosed (43), straight white male, this book felt like it was definitely NOT written for me. Nor does it seem to want to include someone like me in the overall representation.Devon spends the first few chapters emphasizing how straight white males have been overly favored in research, diagnosis, and aid. Which is probably true. But the degree to which this is emphasized felt a little brow-beating after a while.The feeling I got was, “you’re welcome to come in and listen, but please stand in the back because all the seats are saved for other people.”Again, it’s not like the author is wrong in pointing out the preference people who look like me have been given. But I’m still here, too, still in pain, and still trying to figure all this out. Do I not count anymore?As far as the rest of the book, it doesn’t even begin to address the process of unmasking until half way through (I almost didn’t make it that far). Even then, it’s not great, and stays fairly superficial.The author focuses mainly on encouraging autistic people to celebrate the “quirks” and special interests that have got them where they are in life. Which is all well and good unless you haven’t benefited from your autism in any way.Devon never addresses autistic adults whose lives have been upended, stifled, or blown up by their undiagnosed disorder. What am I supposed to do when none of my traits or special interests have gotten me anywhere? What if my undiagnosed autism has only left me stuck in a hole, isolated and alone? Maybe those answers come eventually, but I couldn’t wait any longer.Ultimately, I got about two-thirds into the book and couldn’t finish. Which is rare for me, to not finish a book.Good for you if this book helped you! I mean that sincerely. Because I know how much we all suffer. But all it did was leave me frustrated and even more upset. And it’s getting returned.
62 people found this helpful
Paul –
5.0 out of 5 stars
healing, kindly written
I haven’t annotated a book this much in a long time. I’m contextualizing my understanding of myself and my family. In each chapter there’s a recounting of an experience that I immediately highlight, thinking of my younger self or my siblings. It is nice to feel suddenly in community with others like me. If you want to be thoroughly convinced, or reminded, that being Autistic is neither better nor worse than being neurotypical, give it a read
14 people found this helpful
AJ –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Fantastic read
As an autistic person who figured out she was autistic as a teenager but didn’t know what to do about it, I find this book absolutely fantastic. At age 30 I’m finally learning how to unmask and I learned so many things about autism that I suspected but didn’t know. Cannot recommend this book highly enough.
2 people found this helpful
Seth J. Lemay –
2.0 out of 5 stars
Frustratingly political and only marginally helpful scientifically
There were some useful things in this book, but if you are craving to really understand the inner world of Autism and the detailed scientific data and studies presented in an objective lens then this book isnt for you. If you want to beat the drum of “We are all different and special” which as we know leads to frustratingly conflicting and ironic information then this book is for one. One the one hand there is a chapter or two on understanding the science behind autism, and on the other hand there is clearly a cherry picked group of “interviewed” Austistics with an overrepresentation of the LGBTQ community. It is impossible to come up with consensus information from the selected interviewees. I would say if you are Autistic this book might help you discover how to be more authentic. If you are Neurotypical this book will sometimes frustrate you. One example of the irony in the book is that the Author absolutely refutes that Autism should be considered a “male brained” disability. This idea would carry more weight if the Author himself were not a trans-man, and admits there are many like him. Those type of conflicting conclusions that are not scientific that are drawn by the author further confound us neurotypicals from being able to be good and helpful allies by saying that autism is basically everything and not
2 people found this helpful
The Social Speech Path –
5.0 out of 5 stars
SLP approved!!
As a speech-language pathologist who works with many neurodiverse children, I highly recommend this read!! Throughout reading the book, I was constantly thinking about how I can grow and improve my therapy for my students. I’ve recommended this text to not only my co-workers but my director of special education. This is a must for any person working with, related to and/or is neurodiverse!
One person found this helpful
Amazon Customer –
4.0 out of 5 stars
good for the quiet autistic
not so good for us loud problem making autistics
2 people found this helpful
jourdan –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Highly recommend
I read this book because of my recent ADS diagnosis. I love the writers tone and ability to break up so much information in a way that is accessible. I got a copy for my mom and husband to read. If you are wondering if you are autistic or have someone in your life that is, or just want more information about neurodivergence this is one of my top pics.
4 people found this helpful
Aistė –
4.0 out of 5 stars
Informative book
I was expecting something else, maybe something more practical. It’s still interesting and informative. But it felt a bit bitter.
C –
2.0 out of 5 stars
I was hoping for help and insight.
Late diagnosed adult here, looking to find some work to shed some light on myself and how to better operate in the world. I saw the reviews and thought the book would be insightful but it just feels like an extra long post on someone’s blog instead of a clinical book of understanding autism.There were aspects of it that I liked, and felt a sort of kinship to the struggles but the more I read, the more disappointed it made me.I returned the book after I mentioned it in some support circles and I learned that Devon Prince has a fair amount on controversy as a person with a PHD in sociology talking about a neurodevelopmental disorder as a social construct.It’s concerning that Devon is spreading misinformation about the “drawbacks” of getting a diagnosis, as if there are universal penalties for getting a diagnosis, such as not being able to immigrate to certain countries, not being able to join the military, losing your children, or being discriminated against or seen as less competent in the work place, which all dissuade people from getting a diagnosis. What makes this so harmful is that Devon is having their opinions and personal insight being regarded as an expert’s stance and guidance.
5 people found this helpful
Katie D –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great inclusive and informative book
I went into this book knowing I was neurodivergent, albeit not exactly how, and looking for some help in sorting out the issues I have because of my brain and the issues I have because of how my brain has been formed by the ableism and trauma around me. This did a great job at helping me sort out my own understanding of myself, my understanding of other experiences, how I can be more understanding of others and myself, and what steps to take for myself. The exercises throughout the book build on each other and thanks to the examples provided were easy to accomplish with a little thinking.While this book doesn’t focus on neuroscience (which is not what it was advertised as) it does give a great societal background from a variety of perspectives. I came out of this book knowing more about varied human experience than I did going in and that’s more than worth the time for me, even if I hadn’t also learned more about myself which I did. If you enjoy learning by listening to examples and other people’s experiences this will be a great book for you! This book is also expressly queer and poc minded when suggesting steps giving it an awesome intersectional approach that made me feel more comfortable with the text as a whole.
23 people found this helpful
Devon W. –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A must read if your neurospicy!
I purchased this Unmasking Autism after seeing it all over my fyp on TikTok. Originally, I grabbed the audio book which is wonderful, but I quickly saw I needed a physical copy to annotate. I don’t annotate and I do as a rule of thumb read non-fiction. I generally find it difficult to get through and comprehend with my disabilities. Unmasking Autism was an exception; it has some of the most touching quotes, and created some of the most heart wrenching realizations for myself. I am still processing what I read. I have several of the exercises I skipped to come back to after I had more time to think on what was presented. While it is not a light read I did find it to be an easy one. More than once I was late to lunch as I hyper fixated on the words before me. Anyone who is neurodivergent should definitely pick up this book.
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C H Daniels –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great book
I bought two – for different family members. They were very happy to get them. Recommended by a therapist.
Ivan Gautreaux –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Revealing
This book should be given at birth to all humans.
AshleyAshley –
4.0 out of 5 stars
Cover came ripped
I just opened the box and the cover is ripped
Jade Mellen –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great read
The author works to be inclusive and cover intersectional topics
ramona cain –
5.0 out of 5 stars
A true explanation of Autism
Amazing Book. It really made me understand my 21 yr old Grandson more! I wish more people were aware. The author does an amazing job describing traits and also misconceptions.
Vicki –
3.0 out of 5 stars
Too many distractions
There is some great content in here, but it’s disappointing that the author’s view about other issues distracts from the topic of the book: autism. Almost every paragraph evolves into a diatribe about unfair treatment based on race, sexual orientation, gender, and so on that isn’t necessarily connected back to folks in those groups with autism, just those groups separately as marginalized people. It lacks focus. Also very distracting is that every single instance of “autism” and “autistic” is capitalized throughout the whole book. Why?? It is so visually distracting that I had to reread almost every paragraph. Know your audience…we’re detail oriented, right?
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Charlotte A. Hu –
5.0 out of 5 stars
There’s a reason this book is #1 in Autism right now – great insights
I love Dr. Devon’s goal – an authentic and happy life. It should be obvious, but I’m sorry to say, 4 days ago, when I got my daughter’s diagnosis, that’s not what I was thinking about.Our 7yo is autistic. The doctor at Kennedy Krieger Institute explained this to me on Thursday and I started listening to your book on the drive home from Baltimore.We went shopping Friday to find clothes that feel good or at least don’t irritate her. I had already been driving her to and from school for months because I believed when she told me the bus was overwhelmingly noisy and chaotic. We had already been homeschooling for 3 weeks because school is boring and degrading her mood.She’s so young that it’s not always easy for her to express herself so your book is giving me ideas for her to confirm or deny and naturally her strong ideas make that easy.Thank youWe bought a Google ball for her desk where she does homeschooling and a fluffy furry carpet that her bare feet rub against under her desk. We already had a puppy that we got maybe 6 months ago and I’ve noted a significant improvement in my daughter’s mood and sleep quality – the dog sleeps in her bed. I noted with interest that Dr. Devon says autistic people often have better relationships with animals than people. I’m putting the dog in the good choices category based on this book.Dr. Devon also talks about the need for more sleep. Thanks to the book Why We Sleep, I have guarded the sleep for our family for the better part of a year. I never wake my daughter in the morning even if we’ll be late for something including school. Now, I see one more reason to guard her sleep.There’s so many great insights in this book like the value of noise cancellation headsets (Dr. Devon talks about earbuds (maybe airpods), but my 7yo uses a headset for the same effect. It’s a great tool. Adding it to the good choices.”To keep herself stimulated …” a note from the book about a TV character. I’m still processing the reality that my daughter is both under and overstimulated. I had already hit the idea that she needs a goldilocks zone for her education, but I’m coming to understand through this book that the goldilocks zone applies also to stimulation – both under and over are problematic. I’ll keep working on our options and practicing trial and error. Thank you so much for this book.
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Jordan T Campbell –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Amazing book!
The times I thought as I was reading this book, “wow! That makes so much sense!” Were many. Will be utilizing the book (with author permission) for a group/book study.
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Caleb –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Must have as an autistic adult
If you’re a late-diagnosed or high functioning autistic/ASD/Asperger’s adult you NEED this book.
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Laurie-Beth –
5.0 out of 5 stars
If you think you or a loved one is Autistic, get this book
This book is incredible. I cannot even begin to express how helpful it’s been for understanding how my mind works and what I need to live a fulfilling life aligned with my values. I don’t think this falls into the “self-help” category, but it has helped me far more than any other book I’ve read. My struggles that were hard to define, that were written off as me being difficult, and that I berated myself for were right there written on the pages of this book in an accessible, clear format. If you are wondering if you or a loved one are Autistic, you should absolutely get this book.
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Sarah –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Not just for people on the spectrum
I think so many of us have been diagnosed so late in life because of the extreme lack of information and understanding, in general, of what it means to be autistic… what it looks like, AND what it feels like. My heart goes out to the many, many people who know deep in their bones their is something off but don’t yet know why.I feel so appreciative of the amazing autistic community who have been finding their voices, bravely speaking out and spreading awareness! This book reminds us that we are here, have always been here, we aren’t alone, and we matter to the world in a very beautiful way.Read this book even if you aren’t autistic, because guaranteed you know and/or love someone who is. That someone will appreciate your increased knowledge and understanding.
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puppymommy23 –
5.0 out of 5 stars
great read
Learn so much I recommend this book to all neurodivergent individuals and neurotypical people , the exercises are great start to learning who you are
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Sweetgrandma11Sweetgrandma11 –
5.0 out of 5 stars
The perfect book for me.
Many people (doctors, therapists, family, and friends) told me this book would give me the answers I need to my late diagnosis of autism. They are correct! This book is invaluable, and I am thankful to the author for her candor.
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Jonas Mitchell –
5.0 out of 5 stars
Eye Opening and Professionally Written!
I LOVE how informational this book is. It is a very opening view to those who are on the spectrum or even want to understand those who are neurotypical!This book answered a lot of confusing things going on as an undiagnoised Autistic/ADHD inflicted man. I grew up knowing i thought differently and worked differently to others, and i never really understood Autism fully until i came across videos. Eventually one recommended this book and I just had to order it.Thank you, Mr. Price P.H.D, for writing this.
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